We are so fortunate to have many natural tools available to us to help our children relieve stress. Tapping into our sense of smell is a simple, effective way for us to feel calmer, even if it’s for just a few moments. If you haven’t yet tried aromatherapy for stress relief, you may be overwhelmed by all of the different scents and ways to use essential oils. However, there are a few very effective scents known to reduce stress that are safe for our children.
How Essential Oils Relieve Stress
Aromatherapy is the use of essential oils, including smelling/inhaling them, ingesting them, or rubbing them into our skin. They can be used in many forms like candles, sprays, and as part of items like meditation eye masks. Essential oils are concentrated, liquid plant extracts used for multiple purposes for the mind, body, and spirit including stress relief. They are called “essential” because they contain the essence of a plant, including its aroma and health properties. They can be taken from all types of plants, so they can come from a variety of sources including flowers, grasses, fruits, roots, trees, and leaves. They have been around for a very long time, as many ancient civilizations like Egypt, China, and India have been using them as a complementary and alternative therapy for the past 6,000 years.
Scents can be a powerful way to uplift our mood. According to Psychology Today, the olfactory nerve gives us our sense of smell and sends signals to parts of the brain, including the limbic system and amygdala. These areas are in charge of emotions, mood, and memory, and also help to regulate our nervous system and keep our stress response in check. When we sniff in a pleasant scent, it can trigger positive reactions in our body that last even when the smell is gone. In fact, essential oils have been shown to act similarly to many anti-anxiety medications.
Scents Known To Relieve Stress
When choosing essential oils for our precious children, it’s critical that we use only high-quality products made from 100 percent natural ingredients. Here are a few of the best essential oil scents to help relieve stress:
Lavender
Extracted from the fresh flower of the lavender plant, the oil has been shown to have sedating effects to help our mind and body relax. The antioxidant components of lavender can impact our endocrine system to lower the levels of stress hormones. It is particularly known to calm nerves and help reduce insomnia. According to the New York Times, a 2018 study confirmed the incredible anxiety-reducing qualities of lavender. When your children are stressed and before they go to sleep at night, try diffusing some lavender in their bedroom or adding a few drops to their pillow for them to inhale this calming scent.
Bergamot
The smell of citrus fruits like lemons, oranges, and grapefruit help to calm us down when we feel anxious and give us a boost of energy. Bergamot is a fragrant citrus fruit the size of an orange with a yellow or green color similar to a lime, depending on ripeness. Bergamot essential oil is generally citrusy, yet fruity and sweet with a warm spicy floral quality.
It is known to help people feel calmer and have a boost of energy. A 2015 study found that bergamot essential oil inhaled together with water vapor can lead to positive psychological and physiological effects in a relatively short time. In addition, a 2017 study published in Phytotherapy Research found that exposure to bergamot essential oil for 15 minutes improved participants’ positive feelings in the waiting room of a mental health treatment center. It also is used as a natural relief for headaches and muscle tension, both symptoms of stress.
Ginger
Another calming fragrance, which may surprise you, is ginger. It has a warm, spicy, woody, peppery scent that we are most familiar with in Asian food recipes like sushi and stir fry. But the scent is also known to revitalize us, provide emotional balance, and reduce anxiety since it is filled with antioxidants. It is also helpful in treating headaches and digestive issues.
Your children will love smelling these different fragrances that will also make them feel so much calmer. There are also other scents from Gya Labs that help relieve stress that I encourage you to try, such as mandarin, vanilla, rose geranium, and lime. I personally love lavender and even have lavender sprays, perfumes, and an eye mask because it makes me feel so good. Experiment a bit by testing out different essential oil scents with your kids to see what they favor.
How To Safely Use Essential Oils For Kids
The best way to use essential oils safely with children over 6 months old is to have them smell the scent either directly from the bottle; use a diffuser; or add a few drops to a cloth, pillow, or even a stuffed animal. Children should not ingest essential oils, as some can cause harmful effects if swallowed in certain amounts. Also, avoid rubbing the oils on your children’s skin since young children’s skin tends to be more sensitive than adults’ skin and can potentially cause irritation. If your child already has skin or asthma issues, avoid essential oils until you consult with your pediatrician.
It’s also important to take some safety precautions. Always keep essential oils away from your children’s eyes and mouth. Be sure to safely store the essential oils out of reach of your kids as you would any medication or home cleaner. If you ever have any questions or concerns about your children using essential oils, please contact your pediatrician.
What is your experience with using essential oils for stress relief?
Danielle G
I use lavender on my daughter every night before bed
Bobbie Stewart
Lavender is my all time go to essential oil. But I also use Cedarwood to calm/destress as well.
Did not know that bergamot or ginger was calming.
Thanks for sharing!
Linda
Love essential oils. Thanks for suggestions.
Anne
I love using essential oils in my home and have found they benefit my kids greatly. Great post.
Akshaya
I love this post!
Hope
I find that cedarwood oil can be grounding for some kids – maybe it’s the natural, woodsy smell? Especially in the winter when the cold and icy conditions can mean that kids don’t get enough time outdoors.
Sandi Schwartz
That is so interesting. Thanks for pointing that out.
Manahil
I didn’t know that essential oils are helpful to relieve stress. Pretty surprising!
Under Flowery Sky
So true. Scents can be such a relief, it’s good you’re put it in effect with kids.
Stephanie
Essential oils are a favorite in our house.
My kiddos always ask for their oils before bed
Annalyn
I love lavender. I also use vetiver with my oldest. It really helps calm him down!
Nicole
I love and swear by Essential Oils. I use them with my kids far before using any traditional medicine. The effectiveness of EO’s still blows my mind some days, but there is a recipe for EVERYTHING.
Erika
I find lavender and chamomile the best for soothing even for children. My nieces and nephews love it.
Erin
I love lavender! Thank you for the tips on how to safely use oils with kids.
Sanya
Great post. Few people know about using essential oils to calm kids’ stress. My family has been using Lavender, Cedarwood, Vetiver, Ylang Ylang and Frankincense in different ways – massages, diffusions, etc. I wrote a post a few years back about the essential oils that can help calm anger and anxiety in kids so I’m happy to learn that Ginger and Bergamot can be possible additions to the oils we already use. I’m glad you speak about some of the precautions to take because there are several things to look out for before using essential oils with kids
Tiffany
I need to update my essential oils! Lavender has so many uses and is so calming. I’ve used it many times for my anxiety in the past. Excellent advice on how to use with children 🙂
Lisa
One of my clients is a doTERRA Wellness Advocate and she introduced me to EOs. We use them quite a lot now, especially to help with winter bugs. Thank you for sharing your favourite oils, I didn’t know about Ginger being good for headaches though!
Kristen
I absolutely love the scent of lavender! I haven’t tried Essential Oils yet but may need to start soon.
Faith @ ForMommiesByMommy
I’ve had the impression that essential oils are not ideal for use for kids. I personally love lavender and seems like I really could start using these essential oils at home. Thanks so much for sharing!
Dawn
Lavender is my favorite! It’s so relaxing!
Alyssa
Lavender is my favorite! I love to diffuse that or orange in my home.
Sierra
My 6-year old loves the mild smell of lavender massage oil. I rub it on his back and neck whenever he finds it difficult to sleep and he’s down within minutes. It really relaxes kids.
Jaya
Lavender is an amazing relaxant! I love the smell and sprinkling some on my pillow helps even me sleep well. I will have to see how bergamot works; I do love a good, citrus smell.