Before my journey into the world of happiness science, I thought happiness meant we must strive to feel pure elated joy as often as possible. The problem with this outlook is we will never be happy enough. This is an unrealistic upward battle.
Instead, happiness is about feeling satisfied and content, and connecting with others in our community. It is about learning, and challenging ourselves with realistic goals. It is about opening our eyes to new people and experiences. It is about stopping to cherish the little things, and being grateful for every moment we have.
I started this website and wrote my book, Finding Ecohappiness, because my struggles with anxiety pulled me away from happiness. I want my children–all children–to have the necessary tools so they can work through any challenges they face, accepting the emotions they feel and the decisions they make without letting stress and anxiety overshadow their lives.
I also believe that if everyone in this world was armed with a happiness toolkit–instead of guns and nasty language aimed at each other when they feel disappointed or angry–the world would be a more productive, peaceful place. My work here, and in both my parenting book and children’s book about how nature helps children feel happier and calmer, are a piece of the happiness puzzle for all to explore and benefit from.
What Is International Day of Happiness?
I am excited to celebrate International Day of Happiness every year on March 20th. In 2013, the United Nations designated this day as a way to recognize the importance of happiness in the lives of people around the world. As part of this special day, the UN developed 17 Sustainable Development Goals that seek to end poverty, reduce inequality, and protect our planet–three key aspects that lead to well-being and happiness for all. This annual global celebration is coordinated by Action for Happiness, a non-profit movement of people from 160 countries, supported by a partnership of like-minded organizations.
This year’s theme for International Day of Happiness is Mindful, Grateful, Kind. With our world facing unprecedented challenges, wellbeing matters more than ever. Here are 3 ways you can celebrate the International Day of Happiness with a nature lens:
Mindful
Engage in mindful activities that help connect you to nature, such as tree hugging meditation, earthing, creating a nature mandala, relaxing in a nature sit spot.
Grateful
Express gratitude for the awe you find in nature, such as a rainbow, the ocean, or a colorful bird flying overhead.
Kind
Be kind to animals and the planet by volunteering outdoors engaging in activities like beach cleanups and helping parks. You can also spread random acts of kindness.
How Your Family Can Celebrate
- Participate in acts of kindness as a family to spread happiness to others.
- Teach your kids lovingkindness meditation.
- Visit Live Happy to sign up for tips on living a happier life, access a happy acts calendar of ideas, share your happy acts, and see how others are spreading happiness.
- Create your own happiness wall or find out where to find one near you.
- Download the happiness calendar for each month of the year.
- Seek out books like Sky’s Search for Ecohappiness and Finding Ecohappiness; movies (such as Inside Out and Trolls), and songs (like Pharrell Williams’ “Happy”) about happiness to share with your kids.
Learn More About Happiness
The world of happiness science continues to bring us a wealth of new knowledge every day as more studies are completed. Here are some fascinating highlights about the latest research on happiness:
- Watch Robert Waldinger’s Ted Talk about the findings from the longest study on happiness out of Harvard University. You may be surprised to discover what they found to be the key factor to happiness. It’s simpler than you think!
- Visit University of California, Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, a hub of happiness science news and information–and one of the places where I got my inspiration to start my blog.
- Check out this amazing infographic created by Happify: The Science of Happiness.
And, of course, please explore the many resources here at the Ecohappiness Project and my books. Spread happiness by sharing with your family and friends!
Betty
Lovely post. I saw your post on Blog and Business, and I was wondering if you would be interested in sharing your post on my blog hop?
Karen Patten
I have never heard of International Happiness Day – this is fabulous! I’ll share it with everyone I know!
Sandi Schwartz
Super, thank you and enjoy spreading some happiness tomorrow!
Lisa Lewis, MD
What a great day! I didn’t realize International Happiness Day, existed. I like the acts kindness, making someone else’s life better creates happiness for all. Cheers!
Natasha Botkin
Very cool!! Good luck! Xoxo
Veronica
Lovely post
Brenda
So to celebrate at my workplace we ran a staff well being session : staff could opt for an hour to (1) play board games (2) have a foot pamper (3) a pensions talk (4) cake competition (5) boot camp (6 ) singing (7) learn mindfulness techniques. All 100 staff went home pretty happy. Tomorrow when we are in front of our classes I hope our students benefit from a more chilled out workforce. My role is assistant head/ director of training and I’m passionate about well being. See my blog at http://www.foreverflourishing.co.uk
Karen
What fun ideas! Thanks for sharing! I shared it on my FB feed. 🙂
Lisa
The Happiness Advantage and the Upside of your Darkside are also great reads! Great article – love this day and the attention its getting, esp. now!
Patricia P.
In what the world is facing today, I think it is wonderful to be celebrating this. We need a break from the horribleness of the situation and find calm and joy when we can. Thank you.
Rose Hahn
This is such a great collection of happiness resources, and I love your mission of helping kids learn how to manage emotions so they can find happiness more easily. This is so important to teach, because it really is a skill. Thank you so much for sharing!! ❤️
April
What a great idea and lovely suggestions you got in here. These are perfect to browse during this tough time.
Denise Gardiner
Great post! This is a great resource for our country and the world amid the coronavirus outbreak. Thank you for sharing!
Elizabeth
I love International Happiness Day! It makes my heart sing! In this time of crisis with C-Virus, we all need to embrace happiness and kindness towards one another.
Sandi Schwartz
Thanks for sharing your positivity!
Nikki
Love this! What a great time to celebrate!
Sarah
Great tips!! I love the one about doing acts of kindness.
Melissa O'Brien
Great post. I have heard of the international day of happiness but did not know the full history. Thanks for the insight and tips.
Camille
I didn’t know this was a holiday! How cool!
Katherine
I’ve never heard of this! What a great idea! I’ll have to get the kids involved in this. And it’s on a Saturday this year, so bonus! Calendar is marked! Thanks!
Susan
I’ve never heard of International Day of Happiness, but I LOVE it! Your article is full of great information! Thank you for sharing!
Ramandeep Kaur
Lovely article..thanks for sharing…